What is estimating your worthiness?

Growing up in the apartheid era has instilled and engraved a natural state of unworthiness in both men and women here in South Africa that when apartheid ended many people of South Africa didn’t know how to heal. They just carried on. I have witnessed things myself as well and witnessed a few things outside of my sphere. Here’s my take.

Through my observation, these are contributing factors to what is estimating your worthiness?