Hello friends,
hey…. Doing the wave… Sooo happy to be here.
My wave can look like a worm or even a caterpillar coming out like a butterfly from its cocoon. Sure, it can be pretty “alien-ating” 😉.
Hope your weekend was great and here we are on a brand-new week.
So, my friends in the United Kingdom are shouting while making angels that this January they’ve never seen snow like this in a long time, while it’s snowy over there we had a storm on this side. Actually, very relieved with the rains coming, seriously I was doing the dangling cheetah hanging off my laptop. You should have seen, my fingers looming over the letters a, s, d, f and j, k, l, ; like a spook. I was dead with the heat… oh but I rather be bathing in vitamin D considering we’re living in some strange times, and of course not very excited that mosquitos enjoy swimming in my space. I got some big, pink, itchy humps on both arms.
Okey dokey, let’s get into this topic. I am sooo glad it came up.
My sister and I were having a conversation about success habits. You know, in my community they say, “success leaves clues”. What could be the clues? Success habits are one thing I can think of, that to me is a massive clue. Then one of the mentors said, “How you do one thing is how you do everything.” That too made sense as I sat there pondering, going, “OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOh! Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!” as if I got a slow-motion knock and slap across the face with what Oprah calls the “Aha moment”.
Then I was on an interview with a very interesting guy, named Gary when this actual sentence, i.e., Are you the solution or are you part of the problem? came up in my answer. He asked a question I answered. So, I was literally working on my books and I followed certain processes automatically or so to say intuitively. I ended up going into writing, healing and purpose. Something that I knew but didn’t know how deeply I sifted it out that it literally took the first two novels, i.e., The South African: True Colours and The South African: Roamer both based on true stories ten years in the making until I released them. I didn’t even know the depth of the “why” until I was asked a question by Gary which you will soon come to know and have a chance to listen to the interview. You’d need to wait for that interview to be released. Watch out on all my social media channels for that update, however, you will get a hint on this article.
Shouldn’t you change yourself before you change the world? Shouldn’t you cleanse yourself if you’re going to lead and teach proper concepts in our world? Shouldn’t you remove your limiting beliefs before you tell someone to soar and mostly to soar in times like we are living in now? So, I was sitting there sifting out how the diamonds that will shine its brightest the moment it leaves my hands. Is it going to be part of the solution or is it going to be part of the problem? In this case, I refer to the finished product of my work.
Whatever you’re creating is coming from an extension of you, the expression of you, the healed or the unhealed part of you, inevitably that which is spreading negativity or positivity. – T. Dench Patel, 25 January 2021, 17:36 Which one are you right now? In your life, please, just sit, take a look, reflect… are you in your space living as a problem or are you the living breathing solution? Yes, I know you can feel negative, we all have those days, but just ask yourself most of the time which one are you?
Going forward, so much has happened between the year 2020 that it disrupted young people’s ideology, how they parents worked with the system and the question is, will it be relevant for them going forward? What matters? More so, are we creating solutions or are we creating more problems? In the past, one could get away with making anything that someone needs and will buy. If you have the money you can make it, sell it, make more, sell more… and then become rich. What if you just created a solution that works for everyone, but if it wasn’t the solution for a fulfilled life for yourself?
So ultimately, it goes back to the same question. What is it in your life that is a problem, and is it creating more problems for you? If it is, this is going to go around in a circle, until you resolve things within yourself and find solutions to the main problems that exist in your life or that is standing in the way of your development. You cannot resolve the lives of others. It first has to begin with you. – T. Dench Patel, 25 January 2021, 22:09
Yours sincerely,
T. Dench Patel
P.S I still did not give away the main part of this article, which is going to be coming up in the interview I’ve had recently on Gary’s Glorious Golden Nuggets. Keep an eye out for this post to be updated on where you can see or hear the podcast or you can keep an eye on My YouTube Channel, Instagram and Twitter handle.
Thank you for the comments and support. Thank you for offering to donate if there was a donate button on here. I prefer not to take donations. You can support by purchasing my books (Paperback or Kindle), The South African: True Colours, The South African: Roamer or my children’s book Light. These books can be found on Amazon mainly and other sites in your country.
The audiobook for The South African: True Colours is available on iTunes, Apple and Audible. The South African: Roamer and Light will be released soon.
Note: Do keep referring back to this site as much as possible, as I grow, a more profound perspective may form and so I will always come back to each of these articles to re-evaluate them.
