Hello friends,
hope you are well.
You know we often live our lives wanting to control so much that it scares us especially amid confusion, cloudy thoughts, the busy days or the moment things are not going right that we forget it really is hard to screw up the right thing. I mean many people that say, “It’s hard to screw up your destiny,” or “you can’t mess up the right one,” or “you can’t screw up what is meant to be.”
What do you think?
You won’t believe it, the countless number of times I’ve heard, “you are where you need to be,” heck I even write it in my articles and I even heard this same line, “It really is hard to screw up the right thing,” by a dating coach. It’s reassuring, right? Our mistakes, what we don’t know, the direction we choose, the person we chose, our experiences are the right thing, I know it sounds conflicting, right? Why conflicting? Why would we want to screw up something that is right otherwise how can we say we’ve lived if we have lived perfect, no fears, no challenges, no difficulties, no struggle? Everyone, everyone has at least one big problem they call big. T. Dench Patel, 19 May 2021, 16:54 Can you imagine what we changed for the better, what any leader has changed for the better if we or they have never been through it?
Let’s imagine your life is this rainbow, only (as we know in reality) the rainbow is not the exact perfect layers in the order that you see in the sky, they cross over, they aren’t always straight, but if destiny is what many say it is, then you will still be destined to receive the pot of gold (reward, curriculum, whatever you want to call it), only how you reach it has somewhat been shaped by freewill. So, for example, you made a visualisation, a contract with the universe, now to uphold that contract and to receive that it would take certain courageous experiences, or experiences akin to receiving that which you have asked the universe for, even that which already is in your destiny.
I like how one article talks of destiny as every single day because every single day opportunities come to us, but they won’t come to us if we stay idle, we have to take action, we have to take or reject the opportunity, whatever we’re doing we’re still moving because nothing just falls into someone’s lap. I guess it’s the darkness that as one article states that causes the “analysis by paralysis.” I certainly put my hand up on this one. Sure, we lose footing in life, sure, we lose all our beliefs too in life, sure we lose trust with life, sure we lose trust in ourselves in severe cases, and sure the “analysis by paralysis,” is there to teach us better, to know better this time, almost like reset the foundation until we can trust ourselves again before we can even begin to trust the concept that it really is hard to screw up the right thing.
Choose, choose, just choose and stop analysing because that is what is holding us from our destiny because we can’t trust because if we lost trust that we can’t mess up what is really hard to screw up, and if we really just think about it, and go back, isn’t? Isn’t it was a couple of bad choices from thousands of good ones that we trusted that went wrong? So, let’s stop being so hard on ourselves.
“It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.” Anthony Robbins
You know this concept it really is hard to screw up the right thing, certainly, it takes a lot of knocks, disappointments, rejection, bumps, bruises, yess…. Painful man! Only in place pointing us to the aligned job, the aligned life partner, the aligned lessons, to reach what is already written out on our life curriculum. Remember what it feels like for us to hit it big (whatever meaning you give this) and the person who receives us, remember that feeling? Now that and more events will be so hard to believe that we’d have to pinch ourselves to see if it’s actually a dream. Remember that feeling? We think we want it, it’s for us, but the universe wants better for us… so let it go if it has to and if it wants to, that is, if it really wants to… T. Dench Patel, 19 May 2021, 16:32
One article speaks of the bumps and bruises, the author states, “After all, nothing dies painfully or slowly as a dream,” and then I’ll add, nothing leaves your destiny unless something bigger is coming to it, that dream wasn’t meant to happen than the one that’s going to happen. T. Dench Patel, 19 May 2021, 17:14
You know this article is also very interesting. I can’t say I regretted love; I can only say I regretted choosing the wrong ones at the wrong time but is it really regret when it taught me how to love the right way? See in this article the author states, “you can’t screw up what’s meant to be. But I also add my own ending: you also can’t screw up what was never meant to be either.”
There is something to be said though about it’s really hard to screw up the right thing, it is bound to end up negative, bad when we screw up something at someone else’s expense, and just think about this for a while, and ask yourself the question, “How many things did I create, that went wrong that I screwed up, that I didn’t choose to correct, maybe my behaviour, maybe my attitude, maybe something very poisonous about a pattern that was on someone else’s expense, how much did I do this that it was bound to happen where I screwed up something that was really good and worth having? What if I am screwing up something that is really good and worth having?” Whatever your answer is here, there are always chances in life to better one’s quality of life, character, personality, lifestyle, old conditioning, etc. today we have all sorts of self-help material and coaches. If you want me to mentor you, drop us a line at admin@tdenchpatel.com.
So, it’s also a testament, that if two people have so much love for each other, I mean really true love, and from the bottom of their heart they want to see each other succeed, just like they’d like to see others succeed, then especially with your nearest and dearest, your romantic life, that should be really hard to screw up? When two people love each other so much and help each other rise up, do better, live better, love better, create better, spread good, have patience … I mean it’s challenging; you and I know that there is more to add after the commas, but where the positive outweighs the negative, it is really hard to screw up the right thing.
Trust, trust yourself, trust, trust the universe and strengthen your intuition and connection to your higher self.
Yours sincerely,
T. Dench Patel
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