Hey friends,
how are you doing?
As the pandemic continues there are a lot of people who are afraid, and a lot of people are not used to uncertainty. Maybe this is your first time going through such a major time of uncertainty. Unprecedented times and I am concerned about the world, but the third world countries got a bit extra. I mean even the companies giving out food packs to the poor are struggling. I am very concerned. This is the time to stand together, all petty things really need to go. It’s a good time to begin a relationship with yourself because the world we are entering is going to be a world better off from the past even the past thinking that you and I were living with. I know it, past thinking is not going to serve anyone in the new world. Racism, where you and I come from, the whole putting people in boxes is really and truly going to be a thing of the past. I see a world with more equality than ever heading our way.
The truth is that Karma is ever-present. All thoughts, words and actions are being watched whether you want to believe me or not. There is no point worrying about bad things, just think positive, think it and believe it. Bad thoughts serve no one, it just attracts more s**t. In one of my articles, I write how quickly things can change in a matter of hours for the better. You just got to trust in the good it’s better than spending energy on rubbish that half the time doesn’t even come true. – T. Dench Patel, 13 May 2020, 21:25
Look, I am absolutely sure that you have faced massive injustice in your life somewhere somehow, but you are not allowed to stand straight and say, “I have faced massive injustice,” when you have been serving people massive injustice without welcoming a chance to change for the better. If you are saying right now, “Who am I to say this?” then I invite you to take out a pen and paper and do the equation by being honest to yourself. Let your own statistics speak for itself.
You and I know for a long time that the bad things in life that we face are the ones that actually made us better (doesn’t mean you must go around being mean), if you look at the positive side of what pain does, what sadness does, what fear does, what challenging yourself in uncertainty does, what a person that you thought was your life partner but isn’t does, etc. You have made it out, haven’t you? You still made it out through the whole thing, you’re still here and you are not dead, acknowledge that, pat yourself on the back and acknowledge that you are stronger from that than you’re even giving yourself credit for.
Now in the COVID pandemic, you are probably seeing a lot of people’s true colours. Do not take it personal. You’re still here, you’re still alive, you’re not dead, you will make it out on the other side. Karma will do the job, it will give good to those that correspond good and it will give bad to those that correspond bad, be sure that either way it still does her job, it makes you wake up to being a better person, Karma even brings people their awakening and their purpose. So, don’t hate on her.
Look, friends, if you’ve never been in this space of uncertainty ever if you’ve never felt the pain of a such a bad deal falling the wrong way, you’ve never had to face a situation where a dear business partner leaves you until now, it’s really not personal, it’s a very expensive event that you will understand later in your life. Right now, can you recognise something? Vengeance is going nowhere, just like (let’s acknowledge how heightened the frequency of the planet is) there are no hijackings, no robberies, no street violence, no pollution, just nature giving us unconditional love, and the rise in personal conflicts in our home is what is standing out just by looking at the statistics when it comes to domestic violence. Can you see how poisonous our society is and not mother earth. We have no one else to turn on so we have turned on the people closest to us, and that’s not even your boss. T. Dench Patel, 13 May 2020, 21:44
Right now, I just feel, maybe you might argue this, I just feel that people have acknowledged (not sure how the narcissists are holding up) that it’s pointless to be spiteful to someone else. No one is getting anywhere anytime soon, no one is going anywhere anytime soon. Get that, so work on yourself. This COVID frustration you are having is not personal and no one is getting their way right now, not even the presidents of this world. – T. Dench Patel, 13 May 2020, 21:51:51
We are ordered to stay indoors; mother earth is doing damn well without us. We’ve killed enough, destroyed enough and we’re the ones who supposed to have the brains. Maybe our new world will have just that, a new set of beliefs, thoughts, compassion, kindness, equality, etc. and now is a no better time than ever to change the tape in our heads. When we arrive into the new world having the same tape playing in our heads is not going to work, because the whole system will be replaced by something better. T. Dench Patel, 13 May 2020, 21:57
I mean, let’s think about it. Did you ever have to say “NO” to someone, or “please, not now, I need space.” Look, honey, it’s not personal, every person has to go through their own thing. It’s not personal because you are gifted with your own unique experience, hence why you are one of seven and a half billion. That doesn’t mean you don’t love hard, that doesn’t mean you are not valuable, that doesn’t mean that you’re lazy, it means nothing. This time is a time where everyone is taking things personal, they’re evaluating themselves and picking out so much of what they don’t like about themselves, that’s cool, but don’t be too hard on yourself. Listen, up! You’re a winner, no matter what, you’re a winner, and the sooner you see that the knocks you’re facing are not personal the sooner you will take those knocks and turn them to massive diamond rocks. You are gonna get out alive, you are going to get out on the other side so bright, get ready to shine your brightest light – T. Dench Patel, 13 May 2020, 22:20
Don’t take it personal, you got this, focus of the bigger picture and keep looking at it as much as you possibly can. See yourself in that picture, living the best life you came here to live and do good.
Yours sincerely,
T. Dench Patel
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