OWN everything that you are ESPECIALLY when you fail. You just failed, you DIDN’T fail the finals
Hello friends,
Alright, today … no time for the chitty chat… There’s a lot to talk about on this topic. I hope this article is really going to inspire you to get a perspective on your failures and successes of the past and present.
Ready, get set, go…
Failure gives you a peek into the vision of who you want to be removing the parts of you that are not you as you get to see the buds of the superhero you were meant to be. Failure is a very personal thing because it brings you what you require to finally step into your superpower which you otherwise would never have seen or come to know. – T. Dench Patel, 5 March 2020, 15:57
There’s a discipline for passion, and it’s not about how many times you get rejected, or you fall down, or you’ve been beaten up. It’s how many times you stand up and are brave and you keep on going – Lady Gaga
There are so many people on the planet, we don’t even know each other but we all have one thing in common. We all hide shame, we all hide our failures thinking that is what makes us feel less worthy or strong, when in fact, taking shame, failure, giving it a small little box and putting it in a place very far from you, is one of the hardest, bravest and most powerful things to do. Tear open the shame and the failure and unwrap your real purpose dying to shine right through you instead of closing yourself up and hiding away. It’s hard, but take baby steps and in no time, you will build a muscle for it. – T. Dench Patel, 5 March 2020, 16:39
Look, it is so natural to look outside of you. When you fail you think the whole world is looking at you, but the truth is, they’re too busy and don’t have time for this. They are busy keeping their world together. Let’s face it, we spend more time worrying about the people who are waiting for the day to see us fail, when we should be focusing on the ones who just can’t wait to see us anyway, whether we’ve failed or not. People are going to talk anyway so you might as well give them some truth. That might actually help them, and it’s free. – T. Dench Patel, 5 March 2020, 16:44
When you have failed it’s the best time to focus and look within you, even if it means you need to isolate yourself for a bit. When you look within you and begin to follow your compass, that is one hundred percent the first step to finding you.
Watching this video Oprah’s visionary tour – Lady Gaga this is what differentiates a true leader to a person working out of aligned.
“You got to really answer those questions, don’t be crafty, don’t try to get a good score. The ego is got to go.
The ego wants to win the test. Oh! A+ I’m perfect. Nope don’t do it, you’re doing yourself a major disservice. Go in there and answer those questions authentically, and then study them and radically accept your score. You cannot problem solve if you’re lying to yourself.” – Lady Gaga
I recommend checking out the video on the link, I can’t go into it further, but what I’ve gathered from the interview here is that when we go out of our way to show the very best of us through the highest high it’s actually the steepest side of pain and loneliness. – T. Dench Patel, 5 March 2020, 17:26
Another point I’ve picked up is that through the most ambitious dreams and their manifestation self- love/self-care should be number one on the list. You can only keep making a really good impact through really good health. – T. Dench Patel – 5 March 2020, 17:29
Look, friends, we’re living in a time where we’re losing human connection, and when you own everything that you are ESPECIALLY when you fail. You just failed, you DIDN’T fail the finals, you bring to the table the truth about who you are and by doing that, your vulnerability moves other human beings who are looking for someone to make them feel that they’re not alone, even more, if you have guided yourself out of failure, your followers will seek you out for guidance and help because you have stayed true to your convictions constantly; through failure and success. – T. Dench Patel, 6 March 2020, 14:56
It’s getting worse, social media and technology are accelerating, what people process, access, how they communicate, and people are seeing more people on screens and not in person. There is so much diversity and choice and there are plenty of people looking at the next person. One minute, you want to be this, the next that, one minute you want this the next minute you want that. There are so many distractions and the idea of what is “cool” keeps changing. Trust me, you’re cool when you own you, you’re cool when you see how all those years of growing up and facing what you’ve faced becomes the most special reasons for being you. T. Dench Patel, 5 March 2020, 22:46
When things are going so great that you are not learning, growing and changing be very concerned. – T. Dench Patel, 6 March 2020, 14:59
Look, to conclude my friends, look at failure as a thing you’ve found along the way while digging through your “property”, it just ended up there as this big massive rock formed over time while you built and keep building the dreams you envision. You can call failure sickness too if you want to, but that failure has come to you for a reason. Take the massive rock of failure, refine it and make it shine bringing abundance to those who are attracted to its brilliance and shine. Use it to do good. – T. Dench Patel, 6 March 2020, 15:04
Failure is the best thing that can happen to you. If you have never failed, you have never lived – Abraham Lincoln
Yours sincerely,
T. Dench Patel
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