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I had to brainstorm this title up again because this morning (19/04/2020) I thought this was an incredible article to write but then I had to go over all the thoughts and actions during the day (as it’s Sunday evening now) to remember what was that awesome topic I wanted to write about.
Obviously, it was an important topic to write about because I remembered it. I don’t know how I came across this topic, actually, I think it hit me while I was washing the dishes this morning. It came to me when I started to think about how possible this life can be, and how dreams really can come true, there’s pure proof on this friends if you choose to choose the positive thoughts. It was dreaming, it was writing about the things that I dreamt to do, believing in that I will do it one day that made so much possible in my life up to this day. Did you know that? If you read my book The South African: True Colours you will see the reflection of how low Saesha felt at times, so low that she wanted to leave this planet. This is another topic I also will write about straight after this one and that topic is What drives people to want to think of committing suicide? I got the breakthrough on this answer a couple of days ago. Do lookout for this article, it’s important and you don’t want to miss it. Trust me, because it’s going to really change the way you’ve been “rowing” up to now and why each and every one of us plays a part in why a person feels suicidal even if we don’t think we do.
Lucky, I’ve been a go-getter in my life purely because of circumstances (but it wasn’t always that way) and that I’ve lived as a single independent woman. If I didn’t, I don’t know if I’ve ever been able to even do half of the things I’ve done by never knowing and trusting in “magic,” okay another way to put it “positivity”. Like for example, in my journey in life I’ve met a lot of women who said they’ve been single less than they’ve been with a partner their entire life, even if it was not the same partner, while in my case, I’ve been single and independent for the majority of my life even if say I did want to have a partner or if I did find a connection with someone, it just didn’t happen that way for me. So, I’ve lived majority of my life on that side of the coin. For me, it took my first full-time job to turn my life around, and believe it or not I was lucky to get that job, because South Africa is really a hard place to start from nothing and I’m sure others can say the same from wherever they are at in their life. It took one and the first full-time job to turn my whole life around, get that? I will repeat, it took one and the first full-time job to turn my whole life around, even though I had no idea how I was going to get to work, I said yes to the job. I was going to find a way to get to that job, that’s how determined I was. Do what it takes, Patel, do what it takes Patel, was the attitude I had.
So can you imagine the attitude of the go-getter Patel, when I realised it was getting easier after that first full-time job, and then to end up with the wrong partner (yep the domestic violence one) and then to hear the words which he echoed most of the time? You’re such a dreamer (a dreamer that will never get there is what he actually imagined), but you’re my dreamer and I like your dreaming ways kind of thing… Here’s another clue for you, get a partner who believes in you, get a partner who believes in positivity and that everything is possible, ensure he/she lived some part of his/her life that way or is demonstrating that in his/her life, continues having faith in himself/herself and his/her future. – T. Dench Patel, 19 April 2020, 21:10
It’s a self-reflection of belief matching actions because having this positive trait is really uplifting in a partnership especially if you’re in for the long haul.
So, what made everything more powerful today, about the thoughts of the future, knowing that positivity is important, dreaming of the life and the experiences you want to feel possible? The answer to that is that we already have billionaires in this planet living their dream life (not all of them are unhappy, it’s how you’re conditioned to think) and they haven’t been billionaires before. You can think what you want in the sense that, “Oh sure they got the best education, a better start… whatever,” but there are just as many people who have this even if it’s not as considerable as the super-rich. Everywhere, whether you’re rich or not, it’s how you’ve invested in yourself, creating, finding a passion, mindset and even finding what the market is looking for. There are tons of people who started with nothing and have become billionaires, for example, Oprah Winfrey, Ralph Lauren, George Soros, John Paul DeJoria, Li Ka-Shing, Leonardo Del Vecchio, Sheldon Adelson, Lakshmi Mittal, Larry Ellison and Roman Abramovich so what makes you any less different or less capable?
So, yes go ahead and dream away, but every day take action or improving something that you are not happy about in your life. The ones that quit are the ones that don’t believe, and they quit pretty quick if you check their track record. – T. Dench Patel, 19 April 2020, 21:56
So, change the meaning of all that junk that you hear about being too positive or just a little positive etc. or that being positive takes you away from reality, the question is, what is reality? Can it really be defined? Intuition, knowledge, trust, faith and work can make things turn from one second to the next. There were a lot of people who didn’t expect me to get to this point in my life because they’ve defined reality, they’ve forgotten about magic. – T. Dench Patel, 19 April 2020, 22:00
So, what’s it going to be? Are you going to waste the potential you’ve been given without finding out how much potential you really have? What’s it going to be? The ceiling, the sky, the moon or the stars is going to be your limit? – T. Dench Patel, 19 April 2020, 22:07
Come on, keep moving, stop thinking how it will happen…
Yours sincerely,
T. Dench Patel
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