Hey friends,
how are you?
I’ve dropped all the prices of my books The South African: True Colours, The South African: Roamer and my children’s book Light as low as I possibly could on Amazon. The new prices should come up on Amazon in twenty-four hours. I was hoping to drop it down to less than half price, but I was limited to how much I could reduce the price to. The Kindle and Paperback versions have for the first time gone to an all-time low for a period of six days. The Kindle price for The South African: Roamer and The South African: True Colours has gone down to $4,50, and the paperback versions have also been dropped to an all-time low. The children’s book Light is already selling at a reduced price. Remember this price is only available for the next six days after that the books return to their normal price.
Alright let’s dive straight in, I’m learning so much since the social life seems to be growing. I can honestly tell you to work towards self-improvement. Make that your goal, keep growing, keep helping yourself. This is the biggest, the most massive investment you can make for yourself. The more you conquer yourself the more unconquerable you are, competing with yourself should be a lifetime pact. T. Dench Patel, 7 May 2020, 21:30
You will get this now, if you’ve been reading my articles, have already started work in self-improvement. If not, let me take a shot at how I am going to explain this to you. Do not jump to conclusions in one minute, one day, or at all, by the time, time comes everything is revealed, everything comes out, then you are allowed to jump to conclusions. While you’re sitting in the unknown you better off not jumping to conclusions. – T. Dench Patel, 7 May 2020, 21:46
Stay silent, just stay still, non-reactive because it’s a waste of energy, you don’t have enough information to come to the present conclusion, you don’t have enough evidence to come to the current conclusion, you don’t have enough facts to come to the current conclusion, you don’t know what obstacles and patterns are running in the background of people’s lives and minds for you to just suddenly make that conclusion. Just follow your gut instinct, and while you are building a muscle for that it’s human to make mistakes in life. We’re not perfect. That is why this element that I’m writing about here needs a lot of self-work/self-improvement. That is why time is the traditional healer, time will tell all, everything happens at the right time. It’s better sometimes to leave things unsaid, follow your gut instinct and wait for time to reveal it. You don’t have to give every person an answer as to “why” you did what you did, said what you said, etc. Somethings are better left for time; less energy wasted on a conclusion that you don’t have full facts about and move onto your positive walk of life with intention.
You know judgement can tie into this conversation too. You don’t have a right to that especially, especially if you know nothing about people, things, the intricate details. I have actually tested this out. Once, between the years two thousand and six to two thousand and eight, I decided to remove judgement as much as I possibly could (on my threshold that is) with every person I met, basically I detached myself from it entirely. It served me well and it even didn’t serve me well. Please don’t go around trying this theory out. I don’t recommend it at all. This theory was premature, it didn’t hold any wisdom, any self-improvement work or maturity to it. So, it didn’t help when it came to people I should have really judged and kept my distance from because if I’d been around the right kind of people I would have already known about self-improvement which intuition is part of. On the other hand, by living like this I got to find out the true nature of people the bloody hard way, sometimes pretty quickly and then I used my judgement. Of course, when you enter the unknown and you don’t know how to elevate from that, find the same kind of people who understand concepts around the unknown you can pretty much get lost in it. I believe this is where the spiral went wrong, and I didn’t have enough wisdom to then do better when the economic crisis happened. This is why I suggest that every person should have a coach, mentor or a really good role model to follow.
I’m grateful that today I can write about this. All these articles I am writing are complimenting what is tied to my books so that you can fully come to an understanding and apply what you require to live your best life, honestly, that is what I really want for you, so me being the experiment was really worth that much. So, see, it’s the time from what I was trying in two thousand and six to now, two thousand and twenty that helps me write this article from a more educated judgement after seeing, testing and experiencing so much.
This is why my friends we need to, we must live authentically, one hundred percent, so that whatever you do in your life; whoever you meet, whatever job you do, however way you carry yourself through life, the sooner people can understand your morals, values, the light you are, the faster you can make it to that amazing destiny, life purpose that is waiting for you. It’s just a matter of time. Let your intuition discard what it needs to for your highest good and learn what is required. – T. Dench Patel, 7 May 2020, 22:23
I understand that this is challenging because sometimes you feel like your life is in the hands of a person who is about to give you an opportunity of a lifetime. This is very true when it comes to starting a job. You’re being judged all the time until you prove yourself. It can be torturing especially when you know yourself well enough and how good you’re at levelling up. This was by far one of my biggest obstacles when I started a new job, either I wasn’t “allowed” to level up with the right encouragement or I was judged to the extent of going back into the box that everyone has concluded I was from. It takes a lot of effort and unauthentic behaviours to eventually prove your point but by then you are living in a body that’s yours with a very unfilled character that is not truly yours. That is why purpose-driven jobs are so important, you can give value by just being you and through what you do and still make room to better your skill and you.– T. Dench Patel, 7 May 2020, 22:31
Time is what builds the foundation, sticking in and really taking that pure essence that comes out of flowers to make an exquisite perfume but to get there, the rest of the flower must literally die. As much as it has died physically, it still is present with you. Some flowers only bloom once a month in an entire year, others have to be picked before sunrise and so forth. To come from a seed to a plant, to a flower, to bloom and then to a perfume. The more you work at self-improvement, the more you grow, you become the exquisite perfume, you become the exquisite perfume with the God knows how many amounts of particles that come from several flowers yet fulfils its final purpose from the same “tribe”. Full-bodied fragrance – T. Dench Patel, 7 May 2020, 22:48
Time puts everyone in their place, everything in its place.
Always in your corner.
Yours sincerely,
T. Dench Patel
Thank you for the comments and support. Thank you for offering to donate if there was a donate button on here. I prefer not to take donations. You can support by either purchasing one of my books (Paperback or Kindle), The South African: True Colours, The South African: Roamer or my children’s book Light. These books can be found on Amazon mainly and other sites in your country.
The audiobook for The South African: True Colours is available on iTunes, Apple and Audible. The South African: Roamer and Light will be released soon.
Note: Do keep referring back to this site as much as possible, as I grow, a more profound perspective may form and so I will always come back to each of these articles to reevaluate them.
