Adversity points you to your calling and helps to you master it

Adversity points you to your calling and helps you to master it

In this world, we have everything amongst us on different levels, the authentic and unauthentic, but you are one of seven and a half billion that is why your adversity is yours, because there is only one person with a unique life experience like yours otherwise we all might as well become nurses, scientists, doctors, accountants, etc. – T. Dench Patel, 10 August 2020, 17:35

Self-love vs Self-worth

Self-love vs Self-worth

Think about how many people in this world who think the fastest cars, most expensive cars in our material world make them look cool, beautiful or worthy. How many people can truly believe the concept that you can make a car look sexy, fast or extremely expensive? This is the only reason why I will have a lot of respect for the car’s maker and the racer – T. Dench Patel, 3 August 2020, 15:24

What creates the best version of yourself Would that not be the greatest version of love

What creates the best version of yourself? Would that not be the greatest version of love?

Reassurance (if you want to call it self-worth then call it just that) comes from self-love, self-love delivers passion and purpose, if pure self-love is just about caring, loving and delivering passionately (purpose) then caring for others is selfless, and where there’s LOVE from PURE selflessness then love ultimately wins. T. Dench Patel, 29 July 2020, 16:45

Want a new beginning Resolve and untangle the roots of the past even if it’s seriously uncomfortable

Want a new beginning? Resolve and untangle the roots of the past even if it’s seriously uncomfortable

we all have different lives on this planet, “all things don’t go well for everybody,” said by my mother this afternoon during lunch. True, we have people on this planet who have been adopted, have a wonderful life but feel they have a lot that is unresolved, people like my mother who thought the bravest thing to do over forty years ago was to ask for a divorce and the next marriage might just be all that she’s got at a second chance, people like myself when you read The South African: True Colours and The South African: Roamer you’ll see clearly what I mean,