I am not going to ask you how you’re doing again.
You just met me yesterday 😀 and besides, I can’t do anything about it if you are in the middle of Mexico right now having a not so cool day…
Maybe if you focus on the presence of your dream at this very moment rather than the absence of … I don’t know… say… being your boss’s boss, or dating that woman or guy you have a crush on for months, living in that house that you want to buy, going on holiday with your parents or family, sitting in that car that you want to own or maybe travelling around the world… then your mood will turn around quickly. Focus on the presence of your dream… What’s done is done!
Snap! Snap! Snap! Helloooo dreamer… Hey, snap out of it dreamer! Don’t forget you’re with me right now learning some life hacks.
Want some coffee or tea?
I’ll wait for you while you get yourself one… Hey, you’re in the middle of god knows where and it’s very far from South Africa right now, so I can’t offer you a drink or even make you one :D.
Alright, ready? Let’s get into this article Focus on the presence and not on the absence of what you are trying to attract – Law of attraction
You know this quote; What’s done is done – William Shakespeare, Macbeth?
They say that the universe can’t decipher the positive from the negative therefore if you’re on a negative vibration you attract negative things; for example, if you look for all the reasons not to you will find them or if you’re on a positive vibration you attract positive things; for example, if you look for all the reasons to do something you’ll find them too.
Forget the word want, forget it, become what you want, what’s done is done and then align yourself to it. Send out the vibration that you are already that which you want so that you don’t have to vocalise the word want, for example, I want …… or I want to be …. Just become one with that which you want, that it’s already achieved and send the vibration out to the universe that you are already that, then chill out. What’s done is done. When you believe that what you want is lost out there or that you’re not clear about it, it will become absence and that’s what you will end up focusing on, hence why I recommend this article The power of visualisation or call it the power to dream. Visualisation helps you get on the vibration of becoming all that you want and then do the work to align yourself to it, because, what’s done is done. Speak like it’s done, act like it’s done and think as if it’s done.
Then chill out and receive it… let it in…
When it’s not done, you will always be looking around to get it done, and because there is a focus on that absence you will always be looking for it, therefore it will constantly remain undone… Get it?
The intention has been set, the work has been done, just let it go and let it unfold in its own way.
Be exact/specific about the resonance it has with your life, fine-tune it, how does it feel, put it in touch, taste, and feel. Stay steady in it and don’t look around for validation outside of yourself. Stop picking up the phone and sitting on it, put your phone aside, chill out and watch a series :D… try Iron fist or Lock and Key… not the Walking dead… 😀
Absence is sadness (that’s how come you feel sad) and the excitement comes from becoming it; the anticipation – Inspired by Abraham Hicks – T. Dench Patel, 11 February 2020, 16:28
Let me tell you when this clicked for me, especially the What’s done is done bit.
See once upon a time I attracted the best job ever, and I still had to find a place to stay since I was moving closer to it. I attracted a place that was a ten-minute walk from the new job and sold the nice car that I attracted too because everything was within walking distance for me. It was my first car ever as a foreigner. I moved house and jobs so many times that this time I thought this is it, I really got on with the landlady. We got on so well that we’d go together to practise swings at a golf club, and I got along with her kids too. I pushed aside some petty issues as it was different from what we’ve discussed and I did find the extremely long contract rules suspect but this is what house hunting is like, and what happens when you get captured can be a totally different thing. You just got to go with the gut feeling.
We’d sometimes have a drink and chat in the evenings. I told the landlady how many times I’ve moved house and changed jobs. We were really good friends or at least that’s what I thought…
Things started to change in the house, and I could feel a sense of mystery, but I’d just let it go. She worked for the British Home Office and then one day like a bombshell she dropped the news that she was set to move out of the house after Christmas into her new flat, she knew about it before I moved in and signed the contract. Her contract stated I should live there for a year. I was pretty upset that it wasn’t even three months and I had to move again, after paying a moving company and everything to move to this home I have to do it again. Being a bit vulnerable and with no plan B, I was manipulated into (basically forced) to give my word that I will stay after Christmas and then move out. I put two and two together and realised that she calculated my rent money into her budget for her cool move, and then I had to keep moving my stuff from cabinet to cabinet because the furniture was going. Of course, I started looking for a place, I attracted a cool apartment and then she got upset that I had to move into that apartment before Christmas, and the whole friendship fell apart. It didn’t help that I attracted a new cool apartment, cheaper than the rent I paid her doors away from her parent’s home; the one I moved out from.
This is when I’ve come to understand the words What’s done cannot be undone – Macbeth, Act 5, Scene 1 along with the phrase What’s done is done.
When you begin on the wrong foot it ends on the wrong foot – T. Dench Patel, 11 February 2020, 16:55 (Basically the intention was long set)
This is just how the universe runs the course when it comes to your thoughts, words and actions.
So, to conclude, I was hit with negative string of events after that which led me to amazing positive situations because I become that which is positive and work on staying in alignment with it.
So, there you go.
Someone’s absence has become someone else’s dream – T. Dench Patel, 11 February 2020, 17:12
I hope you’ve got to understand both sides of the coin now.
T. Dench Patel