Quick wins or slow wins Do it right, good and bad karma is promised to all, but tomorrow is promised to no one

Quick wins or slow wins? Do it right, good and bad karma is promised to all, but tomorrow is promised to no one

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Quick wins – Plant anywhere, throw anything in it, try quickly various things and methods to make it grow (meaning short cuts and short processes), less or nil studying, less or nil planning, less or nil applying, see what makes it grow at a quicker rate, let it ripen (unless you cut it premature), prepare it nicely (if you have time), deliciously (if you have time), share it (if you have time), more will come if you have prepared the land nicely, the roots are in, firm and the environment is perfect, and keep nurturing it. (Some mistakes can never be undone).

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Changing right from the start or later pay for an expensive therapist, maybe even an expensive divorce! Oof! What if you have to pay for both Most of all, is it worth having your life on the line

Changing right from the start or later pay for an expensive therapist, maybe even an expensive divorce! Oof! What if you have to pay for both? Most of all, is it worth having your life on the line?

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Why would you want to live the pain, the heartache, the toxicity, the negativity, the destruction of dignity, the power game, i.e. basically the downward spiral? Only to get further down, emotional bankruptcy to the next stage, financial bankruptcy? Often when something has passed beyond the point of returning the chances are it can’t return, or it won’t return unless the person becomes their own hero.

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Reasons why one parent can seem so incompetent when it comes to sharing kids. It really is a pity

Reasons why one parent can seem so incompetent when it comes to sharing kids. It really is a pity

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The biggest knock one can ever have is finding out that one has placed all their self-worth in the hands of their husband, wife, partner, boyfriend or girlfriend. The biggest knock and shock after that is finding out that we were seeking love externally when we haven’t given ourselves the love that we really deserve from us (us the very person owning our body, mind and soul).

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Why single, independent women travelling around the world get so little respect?

Why single, independent women travelling around the world get so little respect?

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Simone is from New Zealand and by this time she knew all too well what it was like to be a single woman travelling around the world. She participated in some great paragliding competitions and joined paragliders in Peru, Greece, Cape Town man… I lost count, but she has pretty much been in places where I can’t even pronounce the name or even the country properly and just like myself Simone was certainly targeted in the workplace, by players (men), in gatherings, in environments (gosh I wished we knew better, then) where women like us i.e. who earned our own money, struggled to make it overseas, lived clean were seen as a threat.

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Brown people and Black people. A topic everyone has been waiting for

Brown people and Black people. A topic everyone has been waiting for

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Alright, so over the weekend I was present with this, “T. Dench Patel, you know we white people are so fed up, the finger points at us and it goes on and on about how racist we are. It makes me angry because when I went to India and not even going to India, I met Indians who are very spiritual and yet they follow the caste system. I wondered how can they say they are spiritual, yet they have strong “virtues” around the caste system? Also, brown-skinned people have racism with dark/black-skinned people.”

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