Author Archives: TPatel

Want a new beginning? Resolve and untangle the roots of the past even if it’s seriously uncomfortable

we all have different lives on this planet, “all things don’t go well for everybody,” said by my mother this afternoon during lunch. True, we have people on this planet who have been adopted, have a wonderful life but feel they have a lot that is unresolved, people like my mother who thought the bravest thing to do over forty years ago was to ask for a divorce and the next marriage might just be all that she’s got at a second chance, people like myself when you read The South African: True Colours and The South African: Roamer you’ll see clearly what I mean,

Certain physical and emotional pressures/exertion of/in the body can manifest into sickness or breakdowns

Hello friends, as promised in yesterday’s article Spiritual scanning, spiritual awakenings and spiritual detox – Why we release tears during meditation? I mentioned that I was going to write an article about how illness can come about in the body if one does not manage well internal and external pressures. Worry, stress, resentments, anger, trauma,…

Spiritual scanning, Spiritual Awakenings and Spiritual Detox – Why do we release tears when we meditate?

Are you into spirituality, meditation and what you understand what you feel during your practices. Take a look at this article.

Something which no one writes about in Domestic Violence because it’s hardly ever touched on

Hello friends, Did you know that domestic violence is increasing as we speak around the world? Did you know that in Australia one woman is killed every week by a current or former partner? Did you know that in Australia one in three women and one in five men have experienced at least one incident…

Your partner not a project

Hello friends, hope you are well. Are you with a partner or are you with a project? I haven’t ever touched this subject intensely in none of my articles so far. Keep reading on and see for yourself how deep it’s going to get that you (even me admittingly) didn’t even know how much further…

The underpaying outsourced employer, the Gujarati SA victim, the Gujarati UK Home Office lawyer, the Chinese trainee barrister, the retiring British Judge and the outdated legislation/act

Hello friends,   hope and trust that all is well at your end.   Yesterday I wrote this article COVID and social distancing is assisting bitter separations, divorces, and the unmarried where children can’t see the parent with the least power https://tdenchpatel.com/covid-and-social-distancing-is-assisting-bitter-separations-divorces-and-the-unmarried-where-children-cant-see-the-parent-with-the-least-power/ For the first time in my blogging history did I ever see the…

COVID and social distancing is assisting bitter separations, divorces and the unmarried where children can’t see the parent with the least power

Hello friends, hope you are well. I wonder if you were wondering when we were going to talk about this topic. Many of you following this blog could possibly be a single mom/dad, divorced or unmarried parents with children. Are you being given new court dates each time? Is the mother or the father of…

Cause and effect

Hello friends, just another day, for you and me… in paradise… para, paradise. Do you remember that song by Phil Collins? It’s come to me the moment I typed “Hello friends”. Okay, I don’t know if the birds in South Africa are confused or if this is normal every year. We’re currently in the middle…