In my articles, you will find that I talk a lot about one’s own life experience and how it’s unique to that one individual that if you learn the art of surrender it will lead you to your purpose. I wrote an article about letting go. You can access it on this link https://tdenchpatel.com/let-go-give-up-the-control-surrender-and-you-will-start-living
People aren’t jealous about the actual thing you’ve achieved.
They are jealous of how you’re feeling,
and if you’re feeling low then it’s how you feel that gives them the satisfaction.
T. Dench Patel
4 March 2019
Not all people are like this of course and you will know intuitively who are “your people.” Every person in the world might feel a little jealous at some point in their life and every person has at least one problem holding them back. When something great happens to a friend, the neighbour, or a family member and it gets even better people often start getting jealous. This is why people who rise up so fast have to pull away or start saying less. If people had more self-believe (my article on self-belief https://tdenchpatel.com/self-belief-is-one-of-the-main-reason-why-youll-end-up-pursuing-your-goals-and-even-becoming-successful-at-them/ ) they will have deeper and fulfilled relationships.
Your story; everything that happens to you and everything you feel is a trail that is giving you clues to who you’re meant to be. If you pay attention and listen, you’d choose the path that you know is going to be the best outcome for you. You will follow as you’re slowing aligning yourself to everything you believe and hold true to. Once you get this, what the next person gets, where they go, what they do, will not be your desire because you’re staying true to yourself. What could affect you which affects most people is how others feel when you’re aligning nicely to your path attracting what you want to attract. How others react could put you off but do not stop or give up. Look at these situations in life as clouds passing through a perfect blue sky. Don’t let the clouds affect you, the sky is blue and it’s your choice whether to focus on the blue or on the cloud. Clouds come and go. This is a good test of willpower. Test whether you’ll react or let the cloud pass. Remember, the fact is that the sky always remains blue irrelevant of how many clouds there are.
Every person is dealing with their own problems and has their own desire and ideas to be in the place they want to be. The next person’s garden will always look attractive and once they finally make their garden attractive there will be another garden that will look better than theirs. It’s not a competition or a race. Your journey will have obstacles, tons of it but for someone to get to where they want to get to the obstacles are necessary otherwise everyone will be able to get to it.
You’re basically writing your own script for your life and no one can have enough expertise but you to write this script, only you get the full reason, dynamics of the why hence why what the next person’s journey looks like isn’t and shouldn’t be of your concern. Yes, be of help if you can but don’t get entangled into what isn’t yours to take on. The impact you have to make on the world is based on what you’ve been through as well as what you’ve learnt that you will bring change to exactly that in this world while the next person will have a completely different life experience. Once awakened, they can then serve the world from all their challenges and learnings thus far.
T. Dench Patel