Author Archives: TPatel

If you are on this planet then you’re worthy of love and respect and with those who don’t get this don’t waste your time

You know, we understand, those of us who get it. We all want to be liked, we all want to be respected, who doesn’t? I don’t know anyone who doesn’t, even my dog wants me to respect him. I mean look at social media, everywhere people ask you to like, share and follow them.

Sacrificing one life to save hundreds? But how many times has that one life been sacrificed?

Hello friends, happy Wednesday. How are you doing? Now, I know many of you have returned to lockdown, while we here in South Africa are a bit light right now on lockdown since it’s a very boiling Spring, it’s not to say that some people should get a permanent lockdown or more like a lockup!…

Changing right from the start or later pay for an expensive therapist, maybe even an expensive divorce! Oof! What if you have to pay for both? Most of all, is it worth having your life on the line?

Why would you want to live the pain, the heartache, the toxicity, the negativity, the destruction of dignity, the power game, i.e. basically the downward spiral? Only to get further down, emotional bankruptcy to the next stage, financial bankruptcy? Often when something has passed beyond the point of returning the chances are it can’t return, or it won’t return unless the person becomes their own hero.

Reasons why one parent can seem so incompetent when it comes to sharing kids. It really is a pity

The biggest knock one can ever have is finding out that one has placed all their self-worth in the hands of their husband, wife, partner, boyfriend or girlfriend. The biggest knock and shock after that is finding out that we were seeking love externally when we haven’t given ourselves the love that we really deserve from us (us the very person owning our body, mind and soul).

Why single, independent women travelling around the world get so little respect?

Simone is from New Zealand and by this time she knew all too well what it was like to be a single woman travelling around the world. She participated in some great paragliding competitions and joined paragliders in Peru, Greece, Cape Town man… I lost count, but she has pretty much been in places where I can’t even pronounce the name or even the country properly and just like myself Simone was certainly targeted in the workplace, by players (men), in gatherings, in environments (gosh I wished we knew better, then) where women like us i.e. who earned our own money, struggled to make it overseas, lived clean were seen as a threat.

Brown people and Black people. A topic everyone has been waiting for

Alright, so over the weekend I was present with this, “T. Dench Patel, you know we white people are so fed up, the finger points at us and it goes on and on about how racist we are. It makes me angry because when I went to India and not even going to India, I met Indians who are very spiritual and yet they follow the caste system. I wondered how can they say they are spiritual, yet they have strong “virtues” around the caste system? Also, brown-skinned people have racism with dark/black-skinned people.”

State of flow or “living in the zone”

When reaching the optimal state of flow the brain releases five chemicals, i.e. norepinephrine, dopamine, serotonin, anandamide, and endorphins according to The neurochemistry of flow states and that is when we can perform our best.

Now, can you understand why humans can become so addicted to drugs instead of achieving the higher state of consciousness through natural activities without disturbing the body’s natural compass, or mechanisms? Taking external substances messes with the brain and with the release of chemicals.

Changing the energy changes everything

That is why some people have mastered the law of attraction on our planet and they believe that circumstance or no circumstance, changing the inner GPS changes where you’ll be positioned in your life. This GPS can get you anywhere you want to be, but you have to know the mechanics of operating it from a higher place which I call higher intelligence. – T. Dench Patel, 10 November 2020, 16:40