Having boundaries

Having boundaries

I’d want to start with what I took from Iyanla Vanzant: People violate your boundaries because you don’t tell them how to behave in your life and they run a mock in your life because they don’t have clear boundaries. Here’s another one, in case you’ve missed this article https://tdenchpatel.com/sayings-advice-or-certain-things-said-by-people-that-changed-the-dynamics-for-me/ It’s not selfish to put…

Poetry, Inspiration and Irony

Poetry, Inspiration and Irony

Better a hard truth than a sweet lie. Seriously, I myself at one point didn’t even know about the power that lied dormant within me until I had an awakening. When you start surprising yourself it’s a good thing. Un dicho en Español . Create strong and healthy foundations. The gift that comes with silence,…

Not one or the other

Not one or the other

While I was growing up in the apartheid regime Indians seems to always be in the middle. Not to black for something or not too white for something. It became frustrating especially when you had nothing to do with apartheid. My challenges were the same as any middle-class white South African my age after we…