Category Archives: T. Dench Patel’s Blogs

What to look out for if you’re planning to take someone’s word for it

Okay, what I am about to tell you is something I won’t apologise for. Take it how you take it, but this information will very likely save your life one day if you follow its advice. Now, who am I to tell you that? I am someone who knows what’s it like to be at the receiving end of the wrong advice or the way someone has said something with confidence to have me believe them without it being necessarily true not once, not twice, … but countless times.

It’s very easy to take something for granted when you’ve had it that long

Then what happens? You keep going forward and growing i.e., for example, you now run a company, you’re married with or without kids, you’re on your tenth anniversary, from a Datsun to a Porsche, from a bicycle to a Harley Davidson, from broke to rich, broke to billion, broke to famous, rags to riches (I remember how much I liked this tv series when I was young). Then, what happens when we get all too familiar with what was once difficult for us to something that is our new norm? We can take many many parts of our life for granted.

The will to vs your reasons why

It’s been years where my reasons why, were not as powerful as I wanted my will to be, that which I remember many many years ago. I even asked myself why in the last seven years was my will not my force anymore? So for those who are here the first time, welcome and for those who have been following my story you’d now find that, you cannot have the will to move mountains when there’s just too much left to heal. When you are starved of the reasons why you have no will. – T. Dench Patel, 14 September 16:19

Protect your energy

It’s a good skill to have when you can work with oneness and protect your energy. I can truly say that there is a lack of people in this area, why? Because it’s such a hard thing to do! Yes, controlling your inner energy from not even knowing what’s coming your way, but the good news is, we can depend on the higher intelligence if self-development work is happening on the daily basis.

How little things tell a big tale

To defeat the external demons whatever you might call it (girls, fast cars, drugs, partying, alcohol, toxic people etc.) you must master the inner ones because the more you live your purpose the more you have to come back to your why, the more you have only yourself to answer to amongst many temptations that lie out there. There is only one hero for you, and that is you. – T. Dench Patel, 8 September 2020, 16:33.

Gossiping, slander, ranting, venting vs real conversations, discussions and constructive solutions

The thing is knowing when ranting and venting can convert into gossiping and knowing that if gossiping isn’t stopped in its tracks (the minute you’ve figured it out, hopefully soon enough), this can really be a waste of energy and time when that energy can be used for betterment.

What it means to live in your father’s and mother’s home

So, what it means to live in your father’s and mother’s home? The home within you is a place where your true father lives while your existence here on earth (mother earth) you have been given, in most cases an earthly mother and father. It means you are entitled, don’t get me wrong, not greedy, entitled to the piece of bread that everyone has a right to have. If you’re here on this planet you didn’t come here to starve, you have a right to the equal and exact share of things as long as you’re not begging, borrowing, stealing, killing, harming, hurting, being over-entitled and even under-entitled. No matter where you were born, you were still born on this planet. You damn well go and get your share! It is your entitlement! Soak up all that rain, before the tree next to you grows so tall that there won’t be any sunlight left for you, but remember the most important thing of all, it’s usually a father and mother that helps and provides without asking for nothing in return most of the time. – T. Dench Patel, 1 September 2020, 20:18

A world where naked souls depend on clothes

We’re overriding where most of our self-worth and value comes from i.e. where we drive purpose from or conduct an authentic life. Majority of the world’s population is operating from and with one percent of the earth’s crust and eighty-five percent of the cerebrum. What I’m saying is, less is more, what I’m saying is the juice or call it superpowers if you must is actually sitting in the ten to fifteen percent region of the brain, and the fifteen percent of our core and so to reach that area is harder, it takes work (hence why one percent of the world can say they’re rich, smart, happy and very healthy).

The real meaning of the power phrase “having nothing to lose”

I believe this is the origin of the belief and what I formed around the power phrase having nothing to lose, if you don’t come from lack the signs keep coming and it keeps showing you the way, the signs are always coming even if you’ve changed course, however you lose the connection and won’t notice the signs if you too busy chasing lack, almost like what you think you deserve and the universe is going no, no honey you got this wrong, go this way, I am showing you the way to what you deserve, and still you force the shoe to fit you.

How lack/scarcity/deficiency empowers and disempowers: The magic of being open

You might say, hey, Dench Patel your standards are too high, or I might say, “Hey, you, why have you joined the ninety-nine percent of people? Maybe then the one percent’s direction and choices would not have led to a more fulfilled and purpose-driven life. Until it doesn’t happen to you in the right time, or you don’t educate yourself on it, you might just end up being stuck in the rat race until you catch up, and join the one percent.”