A thousand reasons why
This is ultimately a conversation of the positive or the negative and it’s another way of showing us how positive decisions and actions affect our lives and how negative decisions and actions affect our lives.
The power of delayed gratification
We have become a society where we don’t want pain, discomfort, but we want the gain – T. Dench Patel, 12 August 2020, 21:14
Instant gratification has created a generation of envious, self-entitled and ungrateful people
a generation that was born in such that they don’t think that actually a price has been paid to be deserving of the moment you are at in your life even if it’s not all that great, but you’re carrying it elegantly, everyone has a right to their personal power. So, what are narcissists really after? They’re after your personal power. Self-worth not nett worth and so that generation of stabbing people in the back to have their job isn’t about the money, it’s about stabbing the personal power, and then replacing it with the money to feel powerful. T. Dench Patel, 11 August 2020, 22:17
Adversity points you to your calling and helps you to master it
In this world, we have everything amongst us on different levels, the authentic and unauthentic, but you are one of seven and a half billion that is why your adversity is yours, because there is only one person with a unique life experience like yours otherwise we all might as well become nurses, scientists, doctors, accountants, etc. – T. Dench Patel, 10 August 2020, 17:35
Everything happens in a second
Even a car is not as fast as a human, no engine’s dynamics is close to any living species where it can do what the body does with one breath of air going in and out. Not only in the physical dynamics of just one breath but as well as the internal dynamics.
I don’t believe South Africans or people in third world countries have ever had the opportunity of living and understanding the term “Safe Space”
Argentina has reached a ten year high during COVID in terms of the killing of women. In Latin America, twelve women are killed every day for being women under the crime known as femicide i.e. gender-based discrimination.
Self-love vs Self-worth
Think about how many people in this world who think the fastest cars, most expensive cars in our material world make them look cool, beautiful or worthy. How many people can truly believe the concept that you can make a car look sexy, fast or extremely expensive? This is the only reason why I will have a lot of respect for the car’s maker and the racer – T. Dench Patel, 3 August 2020, 15:24
What creates the best version of yourself? Would that not be the greatest version of love?
Reassurance (if you want to call it self-worth then call it just that) comes from self-love, self-love delivers passion and purpose, if pure self-love is just about caring, loving and delivering passionately (purpose) then caring for others is selfless, and where there’s LOVE from PURE selflessness then love ultimately wins. T. Dench Patel, 29 July 2020, 16:45
Contraception coma
(You know like when you watch those movies like for example Uma Thurman in Kill Bill, waking up from a coma which she was in for four years, even less than a woman on hormonal contraceptives who has a massive crimson tide with her katana) It’s almost like that, lucky I didn’t wake up with rage. ?
Want a new beginning? Resolve and untangle the roots of the past even if it’s seriously uncomfortable
we all have different lives on this planet, “all things don’t go well for everybody,” said by my mother this afternoon during lunch. True, we have people on this planet who have been adopted, have a wonderful life but feel they have a lot that is unresolved, people like my mother who thought the bravest thing to do over forty years ago was to ask for a divorce and the next marriage might just be all that she’s got at a second chance, people like myself when you read The South African: True Colours and The South African: Roamer you’ll see clearly what I mean,