Category Archives: T. Dench Patel’s Blogs

Good Intentions or Good Judgement?

Certain things need to fall into place or be in place before certain pressures to do certain things can be considered a divine intervention or divine opportunity. Maybe if we lived authentically in society the right help can present itself but there is a high risk that you could be knocked down a lot more which can complicate the sighting of possible opportunities that could be heading one’s way … Let me see how I can explain… hmm, searching for an example, hmm still searching for an example …

The challenge of the wealthy – See their perspective

Have you seen the face of a child who receives a balloon from a cashier who decides to give kids a little gift when they come with their parents to the till? Yes, the cashier being my sister for many years has brought a smile on many children’s faces, but she remembers most the smile that kids from wealthy families give her as soon as the balloon which she blew up reaches their hands.

This is her account from working as a cashier at a pharmacy for many many years at one place some time back (she worked there for say … something like twenty years or longer).

Most people do not remember the smallest good deed but everyone remembers an A-hole

The truth is that everyone has an A-hole in them but it’s a choice that one makes on how they want to react or if they want to react. It’s a choice of who is dominant; the A-hole chimp or the angel. – T. Dench Patel, 30 December 2020, 20:07

Far-reaching + Ambition + Mesmerise + Entertain = FAME TO Fortune-ate + Accountability + Moral + Empower = FAME You are the word FAME and it exists in your life no matter what you’re doing

Your FAME keeps evolving and it’s what meaning you give to it that ultimately the ninety-nine percent of the world is touched by either positively or negatively that will result in the meaning that many people give the words FAME or FAMOUS. – T. Dench Patel, 29 December 2020, 13:14

What if the guru and a father (for those who don’t have a father)/mother is your teacher in life? And if you have neither? What if I told you the clue to where you are in your life currently lives in this question?

There you are, practising, carrying out what you love, passionate and good at and you’re getting better and better. Maybe along this road you got lost, you’ve never returned to what you love, passionate about and good at, maybe you felt that what’s possible for everyone in this massive universe, and for those who actually get it, is not possible for you, but what if it is?

Just do these three things. They will carry you if you let them with a promise that success will follow you, that’s a promise – Oprah Winfrey

If you’re looking really hard at this. Something about this whole topic has got your interest. Then the question to ask is, are you being used for your knowledge, talents, gifts etc. to remain limited or are you using your knowledge, talents, gifts etc. to live your highest and truest self? Again, do you believe that what is possible in this world is or is not possible for you? The ultimate question in this sequence is, are you using your knowledge, talents, gifts, etc. in the highest form possible to serve or what is your intention?

Illegal Dancing

I don’t think I’ve ever seen a couple make dancing so illegal,
that every place makes them legal.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen a couple respecting each other’s bodies
while making a sensual bachata fatal.

Have you given away your power slowly without knowing, only to realise that the external world is dominating your value and not you?

This means that the self-sabotage makes a person believe they’re lucky, they see the positive in the situation having given up on themselves and their dreams and take the minimum good they receive. Some days go great and the days that are the hardest are the days that feel like hell. Self-sabotage compensates this because the optimistic side of the person says, “Today will be gone and done with, tomorrow this will not exist,” but what happens when it’s back again? It’s not going to go until a person chooses themselves, their heartbeat, believe that they are an awesome drummer to live life through and by their own heartbeat.

Look at the time you put into family, health, the significant other, friendships, business, and the self as a return on investment

We need the return on investment on self, health, friends, family, the significant other, and business in order to use effectively the monetary investments and gains wisely. It’s funny how cheap a funeral is compared to the “cost of the fulfilled” in the books of the living. You can have as much money as possible but it’s worthless if you’re feeling dead. – T. Dench Patel, 16 December 2020, 16:09

Your reputation, individuality, and authentic self can only take off once you let the ideas of, in some cases, the control of the pack on you go

When the hormones are everywhere and emotional intelligence is out the window, control over whose calm and the controlling, i.e., the noisier ones, tougher ones, the ones that play off being popular and cool …it all gets very shady. I mean when do we know it’s time to break free? This is a part of destiny and divine timing, and when it’s time to break free there’s massive pressure on how it’s going to be received. Every one of us has felt this in one way, shape or form. Self-made, this journey is no journey for the faint-hearted, and when dreams are big, we have to be bold – T. Dench Patel, 10 December 2020, 17:02