Author Archives: TPatel

Limbo or Divine intervention? You decide what name you’ll give it

Over time I have met mothers who were about to go on maternity, I have met people who had to take time off work briefly because of their health, I have met people who had extra days’ holiday and didn’t know what to do with them (okay this might not be limbo but keep reading…

Don’t quit before the miracle happens

Stop and take a look around. Stop and listen, listen to what you’re telling yourself inside, be aware and then pay attention to what people outside of you are saying. Are you noticing? Do they sound just like what you tell yourself before you start something, or are just about to embark on something? Have…

You’re not a forgiveness machine when it comes to some. How to forgive and leave those who keep operating from their own negative patterns

I am sure that forgiveness is a lifetime question that so many people have because people will keep coming in and out of your life while some are there to stay. This week this topic has come up for so many people and I kept coming back to the same topic over time with different…

A must know secrets when creating your bucket list

For those who don’t know what a bucket list is. A bucket list is a list of things you want to do in your life. You might have five, ten, fifty, a hundred or more. Firstly, take some time to write them all out. Don’t rush, you want to get this as exact as you…

The relationship that you have with your mother or sisters or father and brothers while growing up plays a big part in your romantic relationships in the future

Over time I have met women whose fathers or men whose mothers were either alcoholic, abusive (physically or mentally), lost their employment, had a marital breakdown, depression, ill health and loss of custody (I’m sure there must have been other cases too) from all over the world. I also know tons of women and read…

The time is NOW. DO NOT wait any longer and DO NOT wait until old age

Lately, I am hearing a lot about deaths, wills and illnesses. Most of my friends are older than me so I’m learning from them. They’re now planning their wills etc. after their experiences. Okay, so I wonder, what did a seventy-eight-year-old man do in all this time? Why did he leave everything to someone who…

Self-belief is one of the main reason why you’ll end up pursuing your goals and even becoming successful at them

So here you are wondering for how long and how many times you should go for this but then you’re doubting yourself again by looking at how many times you’ve tried to do different things and failed. Maybe you’re looking at the time it will take to do it or how will you do it.…